The Real Winner of “Ecosystems”? Big Tech, Not You
Stop paying the convenience tax with your data: smarter swaps that stick
A viral post on X claimed last week no start-up can beat the Google ecosystem. It’s a common take we’ve seen before.
Here’s the flaw in that thinking though: individuals don’t need an ecosystem. Ecosystems are how Big Tech entraps you into staying with their services. They bundle everything so switching feels costly. It even can create a FOMO effect that is highly effective.
Yes, there are small benefits to keeping mail and calendar under one roof (we discuss this below). But the bundle mostly serves the platform, not you. Today’s privacy-smart path is simple: mix and match the best-in-class tools, keep your data surface smaller, and still get your work done.
What Ecosystem Lock-in Really Is
Ecosystems aren’t just “everything works together.” They’re a business model that raises your switching costs so you stay put. The bundle (mail, calendar, maps, photos, cloud, payments, browser, phone) is engineered to feel effortless inside and inconvenient outside. That’s lock-in.
How platforms create the lock
Shared identity: One login ties every product together. Lose it or try to move it, and ten other things break.
Default nudges: The browser opens the company’s search, the phone prefers the company’s apps, links deep-open into the company’s store.
Data gravity: Photos, contacts, messages, and docs pile up. The bigger the pile, the heavier it feels to move.
Exclusive glue: “Works best with X” features, like quick share to Drive, instant calendar invites, one-tap pay.
Social pressure: Teams and families normalize the same tools, so leaving feels like you’re creating friction for others.
Why lock-in matters for privacy
Total profile view: When one company sees your mail, locations, searches, videos, files, and purchases, it can connect the dots better than anyone.
Bigger blast radius: One account compromise or policy change now touches most of your digital life.
Less leverage: If moving is painful, you tolerate more tracking and more “product experiments” you didn’t ask for.
Our stance has always been practical: you don’t need to go off-grid to protect your privacy. The less data you leak to any single company, the harder you are to target. Relying a digital ecosystem undermines this whole way of thinking.
Quick self-check: signs you’re locked in
If losing access to one login would strand your calendar, files, photos, and payments.
If “Sign in with [Big Tech]” powers most of your third-party accounts.
If you can’t imagine maps, search, or photos working outside the default bundle.
If exporting your data sounds scary or unfamiliar.
The antidote: unbundle on your terms
The goal is never perfection (which is not attainable). Keep the parts that truly benefit from being together, and mix-and-match the rest. Treat mail + calendar as your spine (more on that next), then choose unrelated, best-in-class tools for browsing, search, storage, notes, and photos. You keep convenience, cut correlation, and reduce single-point-of-failure risk.
Think of it like financial diversification for your data. Spread your exposure so one company (or one breach or one data harvester) can’t see or affect everything. That’s how you become a harder target without breaking your workflow.
Mail and Calendar: The One Bundle That Still Makes Sense
For most people, mail and calendar work better when they live under the same roof. They share the same identity, contacts, and time-zones, and they’re the two apps you touch all day. Keeping them together reduces friction without surrendering your whole life to a single ecosystem.
The good news: you don’t need Google for this. There are dozens (easily 50+) combinations that pair email + calendar cleanly, ranging from niche privacy friendly startups to Big Tech incumbents. Examples include Proton, Tuta, and Fastmail on the one hand and Outlook, Apple, and your ISP on the other.
Note: we’re not endorsing using Outlook, Apple mail or your ISP for mail and calendar. Our point is that “ecosystems” are overrated in importance when viewed from an end user. You have a lot of choices beyond Google.
Think of mail + calendar as your operating spine. Choose one provider you trust, then connect everything else (notes, storage, tasks, video, etc.) around it on your terms.
Proton: A Privacy-First Ecosystem That Seeks to Rival Google
If you do want a more unified setup without the surveillance trade-offs, Proton is the closest thing to a privacy-friendly alternative to Google. Their model is simple: pay them money, not with your data. Their suite now covers the daily basics:
Proton Mail and Proton Calendar for communication and events
Proton Drive for files and photo storage
Proton Pass for passwords and passkeys
Proton VPN for encrypted connections on the go
Proton Docs for word processing
Is Proton an “ecosystem”? Technically yes, but the incentives are different. It’s built on encryption and portability, so you can still mix and match: keep Proton for mail/calendar and drive, use Brave or Mullvad for browsing, Brave or DuckDuckGo for search, Notes Nook for notes, and watch YouTube in a separate browser profile. You get most of the convenience of a bundle without the lock-in pressure or the data-harvesting business model.
Bottom line: if you want one vendor to anchor your privacy setup, Proton is a strong option. If you prefer to mix tools, Proton still plays nicely as the mail/calendar backbone while you choose apps elsewhere.
Need a Plan to Ditch the Google Ecosystem?
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